The Ultimate Guide For Choosing The Right Stone For Your Engagement Ring

Choosing the perfect stone for your engagement ring is more than just picking something sparkly—it’s about finding a stone that speaks to your personality, fits your style, and, of course, looks fabulous on your hand. With so many options out there, from classic diamonds to bold, colourful gems, let’s break it down and help you choose the one that’s just right for you.

Picking The Right Engagement Ring Stone

Believe it or not, the shape and size of your hand can play a role in which stone will look best. 


Here’s a quick guide to help you figure out what might suit your unique features:


- Long Fingers: You can really pull off elongated shapes like ovals, emerald cuts, or marquise stones. These shapes enhance the length of your fingers and create an elegant, sophisticated look. The world is your oyster because round, cushion, and princess cuts are also great. You have more flexibility with long fingers. It is safe to go with the shape you love most. 

  

- Short Fingers: Opt for round or cushion-cut stones. These shapes create the illusion of length without overpowering your hand. The softness of these cuts adds a delicate touch to shorter fingers. We’d suggest the elongated shapes for these fingers (to create elongation).


- Wide Fingers: Go for bold and broad stones like a radiant, long cushions or ovals. Again, elongation is going to really help these cuts balance the width of your fingers and make the stone appear even larger—more sparkle to love! But in this case, it’s important to compliment the width in one or two ways. You will either go with a very large carat size, or consider side stones on your ring, which will look beautiful on wider fingers as you have the room for them!


- Petite Hands: Good news for you! Your stones are automatically going to look larger (yes we are all jealous ;)). You have lots of options here for stone shapes that will suit your hand, but keep in mind don’t get anything clunky. Stick to delicate details that will really stand out. 


Engagement Stones to Maximize Size


We all love a little extra sparkle, and if you want a stone that gives the impression of more carat weight without the hefty price tag, these tips are for you.


- Oval, Marquise, and Pear Cuts: These three shapes tend to look larger than they are because of their elongated forms. Bonus—they also give your fingers a more slender appearance!


- Halo Settings: If you’re aiming to make your stone look bigger, consider modernizing a halo setting. Surrounding the center stone with smaller diamonds amps up the sparkle and adds perceived size without upping the cost.

Unique Engagement Stones That Stand Out

Why settle for something ordinary when you can make a statement? If you’re after a truly one-of-a-kind ring, consider a less traditional stone or cut.


- Coloured Stones: Think champagne diamonds or beyond diamonds! Sapphires, emeralds, and rubies are all stunning choices that add a pop of colour and personality to your ring. You can also explore more unexpected gems like - aquamarines for a softer, romantic vibe.


- Fancy Cuts: Pear, Kite, and Asscher cuts all offer something unique. Pear-shaped stones feel vintage yet modern, while An Asscher cut has an art deco charm that’s sure to turn heads.


- Unique Combinations: Don’t be afraid to mix it up with coloured stones and unique settings. Rose gold with a sapphire or a vintage-inspired ring with emerald accents can take your engagement ring to the next level.

It’s a Wrap

At the end of the day, your engagement ring should reflect who you are. Whether you want something classic and timeless, bold and unique, or a stone that’s all about maximizing sparkle, there’s a perfect option out there for you. 


Trust your instincts, have fun with the process, and you’ll end up with a ring that feels like it was made just for you.


Do you need help choosing your engagement piece? 


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